08/19/2026
This bench seems like it was made for contemplating life.
Often, people in the Kootenays ask each other how they got here.
And the stories are varied. Some were passing through. Some were born here. Some wanted to leave something behind. Others wanted to reach for something more.
But a question that maybe isn't asked as often is: why are you still here?
Why haven't you left? What keeps you here?
Kids who grow up here are often told to go and see the world, then come back. Some go and never return. Some leave and eventually come home. Some never particularly care to leave at all.
Maybe there's something about the places we choose to stay.
We tend to think we choose a place because it suits who we are. The mountains. The space. The slower pace. The independence. The communities. The particular way life works here.
But stay somewhere long enough and perhaps the relationship starts working both ways.
The place becomes part of your routines. Your friendships. What you do for fun. What you consider important. What you're willing to do without. Even what feels normal.
Eventually, it becomes difficult to know where the place ends and your own story begins.
Which seems like something worth contemplating from a bench like this.
Did you choose to stay in the Kootenays because of who you are?
Or are you who you are because you chose to stay?