01/31/2021
There are 2 unpopular truths...
I talk with and coach dudes all the time that feel like their partner just isn’t cutting it.
They “don’t give me what I need”, or “things aren’t exciting anymore”, or “they’re not improving themselves”, or my personal fav “we’re just not compatible anymore.”
And the list of complaints goes on and on...
Unpopular truth #1: my partners actions, feelings, and thoughts are out of my control.
I can’t do anything to make her happy, motivated, excited, or more in love with me. That is her task.
I can only control myself and the kind of partner I am. Whatever I want in the relationship... it’s up to ME to create it.
Unpopular truth #2: compatibility by coincidence, fate, faith, or luck is a devastating lie.
Two people aren’t “compatible or not”. They have to CHOOSE to be compatible in every moment. Again and again and again.
There is a secret weapon to CHOOSING and practicing compatibility.
This is one of the major things we focus on at EPIC man trips.
That’s why months after the trip men are still texting me telling me that they didn’t know their marriages could get this good, that it’s like their partner is a new person, and things have never been this exciting.
These are my favorite messages to get! (Except of course the ones from my best friend letting me know it’s better than she ever imagined.😉)
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