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People, places and everthyting in between

Across The Dash is a record of the people I meet, the places I pass through, and the moments between pickups that usually go unnoticed — on a 12 month road journey across the U.S funded by gig driving.

Does anyone else buy lottery tickets for the daydreams more than the jackpot? 😂Talking about Elon Musk becoming the worl...
06/14/2026

Does anyone else buy lottery tickets for the daydreams more than the jackpot? 😂

Talking about Elon Musk becoming the world’s first trillionaire reminded me of something…

I had a lotto ticket tucked into my sun visor that I bought before leaving Washington.

Part of me enjoyed the fantasy. Not gonna lie. 😂

That’s actually what I buy them for. I always have.

I love to think about what I’d do differently if I hit the jackpot.

I love to hear what other people dream about if they won too. I love the twinkle they get in their eye when they talk about it. Even if it’s just for a moment.

But over the last few months, this specific little ticket became something else.

It rode shotgun with me across multiple states. Through Route 66.
Through 14 states. Through family visits. Through car troubles, financial stress, advocacy work, sunsets, sunrises, and long stretches of road.

Every once in a while, when life felt heavy or I heard about someone else struggling, I’d reach up and touch that ticket.

Not because I thought I was going to win.

But because it represented possibility.

As long as I didn’t check it, there was always a chance. A very small chance, but a chance.

Maybe that’s why I never checked it.

Not because I was afraid of losing.

Because I wasn’t quite ready to let go of the possibility.

Today I finally checked it.

I didn’t win.

But honestly, I think I got my $2 worth.

That little ticket gave me months of entertainment. I don’t think life would change much for me; same things just at a different scale. I imagined traveling with expedition trucks and dreaming of the places I’d go and the ones I’d take with, villas around the world, reflecting on benches in Brazil at sunrise, pretty rocks in I’d admire in Africa, random strangers I’d meet across the globe, and a future where the people I care about never have to worry so much. Same life… just on a different scale.

Sure… This ticket lost.

But the dream didn’t.

So…

I’ll probably buy another one tomorrow to ride shotgun for the next 10,000 miles or so. 😂

Because for $2, it’s hard to beat something that gives a little entertainment, carries some hope, and reminds me that the future isn’t fully written yet.

Until then, I’ll keep living my dream my way…

One mile at a time. ❤️

Your turn…

What would YOU do if you suddenly won a billion dollar jackpot? Would you take the lump sum or 30 annual payments?
What’s the first thing you’d splurge on after taking care of the fundamentals?

I counted the cash in my pocket.Not enough paper cash for the breakfast burrito I was eyeing. Then I opened my phone and...
06/13/2026

I counted the cash in my pocket.

Not enough paper cash for the breakfast burrito I was eyeing.

Then I opened my phone and read that Elon Musk may have become the world’s first trillionaire.

A trillion dollars?

I looked back at the cash in my hand… Then I went on a walk.

I found the perfect bench, in the perfect city, to think about a trillion dollars. Contemplating wealth. But most of all, reflect about legacy.

As I looked out over Duluth, I started thinking about the history here.

A little over a hundred years ago, Duluth reportedly had more millionaires per capita than almost anywhere in America. Fortunes were built here from iron ore, shipping, timber, and railroads.

Most of those fortunes are gone now.
The money changed hands.
The companies were sold.
The heirs came and went.
The people themselves returned to dust.

Yet something remained.

The libraries.
The parks.
The institutions.
The stories.
The things that outlived bank accounts and physical human forms.

Legacy.

One of those men was Andrew Carnegie.

He started life in poverty, built one of the largest fortunes the world had ever seen, and later in life he became obsessed with a question:

What is wealth actually for?

In his later years, he argued that the worst thing a wealthy person could do was die rich. He believed wealth should be used to create opportunities that would outlive the person who earned it… I meant… accumulated it.

Despite the ways he accumulated his wealth… More than a century later, people still walk through buildings he funded. I have personally walked through many of them myself.

That’s a legacy.

It also made me think about a different kind of wealth and what a meaningful legacy really means to me. As I sit in Duluth which is ground zero for many things in my personal life.

I reflect on the legacy I want to leave behind but mostly about the legacy handed down from others.

Some of the most important legacy builders I’ve ever met don’t have two pennies to rub together.

I’ve watched people with empty bank accounts change thousands of lives.
I’ve watched them leave fingerprints on the future.

They may never have a library named after them.
They may never appear on a rich list.
But they leave something behind.

A safer child.
A powerful idea.
A stronger community.
A changed mind.
A changed law.
A life pointed in a better direction.

That’s a deeply meaningful legacy too.
Maybe even the purest form of it.

A trillion dollars is hard to comprehend.
But so is the impact of one person who changes the trajectory of another human life.
And the impact they have on generations not even born yet.

One hundred years from today, none of us reading this will be here.
The question isn’t how much we accumulated.

The question is what remains after we’re gone.

The things that outlived our bank accounts.

The things that outlived our physical forms.

Legacy.

The only wealth we get to keep is what we give away.



This post is especially dedicated to Kara Massie.

For the legacy she left behind.

06/13/2026

Sunrise reveal of Lake Superior for the road crew who’ve never been.
Ive been waiting for a clear sky morning and today was the day.

I don’t think photos or videos can properly explain Lake Superior but I did my best for those who’ve never been here. What you’re seeing is just the very bottom tip of the lake. It widens out dramatically and stretches hundreds of miles beyond what my camera can capture.

It’s one of my favorite places in the world.
People surf here. Ships cross it. Storms build on it.

And yet this morning, it was completely calm.

Standing above Duluth watching the sun rise over what looks like an inland ocean is one of those moments that I really needed today to put things in better perspective and a moment that makes me grateful for this journey.

Good morning, Road Crew, I hope you have a fabulous day!



My brother Michael took my mom to Hawaii for what was supposed to be a vacation.She packed two suitcases.And then she st...
06/12/2026

My brother Michael took my mom to Hawaii for what was supposed to be a vacation.

She packed two suitcases.

And then she stayed.

Just like that.

My brother ended up buying property there, and my mom, (who had spent most of her life raising kids, working hard, and taking care of everyone else) started an entirely new chapter.

From thousands of miles away, she’d call me and tell me about her adventures.

Swimming with sea turtles.

Watching dolphins play in the waves.

Walking black sand beaches.

Seeing lava flow into the ocean.

Meeting amazing people from all over the world and somehow turning strangers into friends.

One of those friends was a woman named Poojani. I never had the chance to meet her in person, but through my mom’s stories and photos, I felt like I knew her and somehow we became friends too. It’s funny how some people can become part of your life without ever being in the same room.

My mom would send photos home. Little gifts for the grandkids. Stories about places that seemed too beautiful to be real.

I always wanted to go there. I intended to.

At the time, I was busy raising kids, managing life, and doing all the things moms do. I never made it to Hawaii while she lived there.

But lately, as I’ve been traveling across the country myself, chasing sunsets, taking roads I’ve never seen before, and saying yes to adventures that don’t always make sense on paper…

I’ve found myself thinking about her.

About a woman who built a life on an island with only 2 suitcases.

About someone willing to leave the familiar behind and embrace whatever came next.

About someone who didn’t wait for permission to have an adventure.

And it hit me.

Long before Across The Dash…

Long before I started wandering…

Long before I ever thought of myself as brave…

I had a front row seat to someone who already was.

She probably had no idea she was teaching me anything.

Most of the people who inspire us don’t.

But maybe every time I pull into a town I’ve never seen before, every time I choose curiosity over comfort, every time I say yes to one more adventure…

A little piece of that came from her.

And maybe that’s the funny thing about inspiration.

Sometimes the people who change our lives never set out to teach us anything at all.

They simply live their lives boldly enough that years later, you realize you’ve been following their footsteps all along.

I’d love to hear who and how someone has inspired you in your life. Who are they and what about them inspires you?

*ai generated photo for illustration purposes








I’m still working on it!  Goals! 😄
06/11/2026

I’m still working on it! Goals! 😄

It was only fitting today.The lightning started first.Then came the thunder and the rain.Not the soft summer kind.The ki...
06/10/2026

It was only fitting today.

The lightning started first.

Then came the thunder and the rain.

Not the soft summer kind.

The kind that makes you stop what you’re doing and pay attention.

Thunder echoed across Lake Superior.

Rain hammered my windshield.

The sky flashed white every few seconds.

So I pulled over and took a break.

As I sat there watching the storm, an article about the Superior Hiking Trail anniversary popped up on my phone.

And instantly I thought of her, the lake, the storm and how life has these funny switchbacks.

I can’t remember her name.
But I remember her story.
And I remember exactly where she told it.

About ten years ago or so, a friend called me and excitedly exclaimed,

“You need to meet this young lady and hear her story. You’re going to love her!”

It was my day off, but a massive storm was brewing that day too, so my adventures were on hold.

So I did.

I drove up the shore and met her at the Grand Superior Lodge

We sat beside that massive stone fireplace.

Hot cocoa steamed from our mugs.

The fire crackled.

The scent of wet pine blew in every time someone opened the door.

Outside, Lake Superior was turning angry.

Inside, it felt like the safest and coziest place in the world.

And then she started telling me what she’d been doing.

She was hiking the entire Superior Hiking Trail.

Alone.

All Three hundred and ten miles plus some.

Not a weekend hike.

Not a few days in the woods.

Three hundred and ten miles of rugged terrain on the shores of the largest fresh water lake in the world.

By herself.

My friend was right. I was absolutely fascinated.

And her stories drew me in so completely that I felt like I was there beside her.

She told stories about waking up from wolves howling so close that it raised the hairs on her neck.

About finding fresh bear tracks in the mud.

About hearing animals moving through the brush at night when she couldn’t quite see what was making the noise.

She described standing on rocky overlooks above Lake Superior where the lake stretched all the way to the horizon and the world felt impossibly big.

Places so beautiful they almost hurt to look at.

She talked about rain-soaked campsites, aching muscles, endless climbs, and long stretches of trail where she wouldn’t see another person for days.

Most people hear those stories and think of reasons not to go.

She told them like reasons she loved it.

What struck me wasn’t that she was fearless.

It was that none of it seemed to bother her.

The wolves.

The bears.

The storms.

The solitude.

She talked about them the same way most people talk about a walk through the neighborhood.

Not reckless.

Prepared.

Confident.

Completely comfortable in places most people would never willingly spend a night.

She had started in Canada and reached the lodge to pick up a resupply package she had mailed to herself weeks earlier.

She repacked her large pack.

Charged her phone.

Checked her maps.

Called her dad.

I remember smiling when she talked about him.

He had helped plan the route once he knew he couldn’t talk her out of it.

Helped think through the logistics.

Helped build safety plans.

And every few days she’d call to let him know she was okay.

Back then I didn’t fully understand what that felt like.

Today I do.

Because every time my phone rings while I’m wandering the country, my own dad answers with relief hidden behind practical questions.

“Where are you now?”

“How’s the car running?”

The questions are different. The worry is the same.

Outside, the storm kept getting worse.
The wind howled around the lodge.
Rain lashed the windows.
The trees bent and twisted.

Even sitting inside, safe beside a roaring fire, it felt intimidating.

Finally I asked the question that seemed obvious.

“You’re staying here tonight, right?”

She looked out the window at the lightning flashing across Lake Superior.

Then back at me.

And smiled.

“Nope.”

I honestly thought she was joking. She wasn’t.

She planned to head back onto the trail.
Into that storm. To find a place to sleep for the night.

As a mom, every alarm bell in my body went off.
I didn’t hear adventure anymore.

I heard wolves.

I heard bears.

I heard thunderstorms rolling across the ridges.

I pictured a young woman I barely knew, alone in a tent somewhere deep in the woods while trees swayed overhead.

Lightning flashing through the forest.

Wind pushing against the fabric of her tent.

Meanwhile she sat there calmly sipping hot cocoa like this was all perfectly reasonable.

So I offered her a room at my place.

My kids were with their dad that weekend, and I had plenty of space.

At first she hesitated.

Not because I was a stranger or that she didn’t want a warm bed and a hot shower.

Because she didn’t want to skip even a mile of the trail.

She had started this journey one step at a time and wanted to finish it the same way.

I understood that.
Sometimes a goal becomes sacred.
Skipping a section would feel like cheating.

So I promised I’d drive her right back to the exact same spot in the morning.

Not a mile lost.
Not a mile gained.

She finally agreed.
And I’m so glad she did.
Because that storm was no joke.

The next morning there were trees down everywhere.
Power outages.
Damage reports.
Even talk of tornadoes.
The kind of storm people remember.

But dawn came.
The sky cleared.
The lake calmed.

That’s how it works on the North Shore.
One moment the world feels wild and dangerous.
The next it’s breathtaking.

And somewhere that morning, she shouldered her heavy pack, stepped back onto the trail, and disappeared into the woods.

I never saw her again.

But all these years later, I back here, sitting beside Lake Superior while I’m on my own solo journey and watching another storm roll through, I thought about her.

I hope she finished every mile.

I hope she found wolves howling beneath the stars and sunrises that made every hard step worth it.

I hope she’s still out there collecting stories.

Because all these years later, she’s still part of one of mine.

And maybe that’s why I’ve carried this memory for so long.

Because courage is contagious.

Sometimes one brave person changes the course of another person’s journey without ever knowing they did.







*ai generated photo

Things I learned in Duluth at 4 a.m…1. Not every mysterious glow in the sky is the Northern Lights.2. The sun apparently...
06/06/2026

Things I learned in Duluth at 4 a.m…

1. Not every mysterious glow in the sky is the Northern Lights.
2. The sun apparently rises in the north here in June.
3. I am much easier to confuse before coffee.

I genuinely spent several minutes trying to figure out if the Northern Lights were lighting up the sky … before realizing it was just a Minnesota sunrise doing Minnesota sunrise things 😂







*ai generated photo

06/04/2026

Today was one of those days where two very different parts of my life collided.

Most of you know me as the woman wandering America in a white Ford Flex, chasing waterfalls, small-town diners, hidden gems, and stories from the road.

But before Across The Dash, I was a mom. And before I was a mom, I was a child.

Today brought some deeply personal things back into focus for me and my family.

I’m not going to get into the details here because this page isn’t really about that.

This page is about people, places, and the space between pickups across America.

But the truth is, every mile I drive is shaped by the experiences that came before it.

The things that break us.

The things that heal us.

The people who stand beside us.

And the courage it takes to keep moving forward when it would be easier to stop.

So if I seem a little quieter, that’s why.

Today I just need some self care and, for me, the majestic shores of Lake Superior is the perfect place for that. I need to soak her energy in and spend time just being still.

And express my overwhelming gratitude. I’m grateful for truth, for healing, for the people willing to listen, and for every person who chooses courage over comfort.

Today I’m quiet. Tomorrow the road continues.
And so do I. ❤️



I’ve been a little MIA lately, so here’s a quick update.Last Thursday, after getting Andrea settled in the ER and realiz...
06/02/2026

I’ve been a little MIA lately, so here’s a quick update.

Last Thursday, after getting Andrea settled in the ER and realizing she was going to spend the night in a hallway bed while they monitored her and figured out treatment, I walked out to my car to find somewhere to rest.

That’s when it hit.

Not sadness. Not exhaustion.

A toothache from HELL!

I’m talking sudden, excruciating, stop-you-in-your-tracks pain.

As I dug through my stuff looking for anything that might help, I remember thinking:

“God, please… not now. At least get me through the wedding.”

And then it eased up enough that I could function.

Fast forward through the wedding weekend, family time, travel, and all the chaos.

And then…

I kid you not.

The pain came roaring back during the very last song of the wedding.

The. Very. Last. Song.

I don’t know what to make of that. Maybe God answered my prayer exactly as requested. Maybe He has a sense of humor. Maybe both.

Since then I’ve been juggling family time, dentist appointments, and figuring out what comes next.

The verdict?

A fractured tooth. A filling that fell out. A small infection. And now a referral to an oral surgeon because the tooth likely needs to come out.

The good news is I found a dentist to check it out quickly, the infection is draining, I’m starting antibiotics, and the pain is much more manageable than it was.

The bad news is apparently my body looked at everything else going on and thought, “You know what would make this road trip more exciting!?”

So if you’ve been wondering where I’ve been, that’s the story.

Family first.
Health second. Adventures temporarily delayed by a rebellious molar.

I’ll be back to exploring soon.



And for anyone keeping score, the wedding was absolutely beautiful, Andrea got the treatment she needed, friends and family are now on their way back home, it’s amazing weather in the upper peninsula, I get to spend some quality time exploring here with my daughter Sara’s growing family, get to know my newest daughter-in-law once they get back from their honeymoon and I’m still smiling… just a little more carefully than usual. 😅🦷❤️

# Tonya Peldo

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