10/06/2026
Choosing Gratitude.
One thing I find incredibly important is remembering to thank the people who care for and support our disabled family members.
It’s easy to focus on what we feel may not be happening, but if we took a moment to see the dedication of DSPs, managers, directors, intake teams, and all the other departments working behind the scenes, we might feel proud of the care and effort being given.
The care provided by others may not look exactly like the care a parent gives—and that’s okay. It isn’t less; it’s simply different. Each person brings unique strengths, perspectives, and connections that can help our loved ones grow, feel supported, and experience greater joy and belonging.
Supporting someone with a disability can be challenging, but the people in their lives work hard to help them navigate those challenges and build meaningful connections.
So today, I’m choosing gratitude, realism, and respect. Let’s appreciate the people who show up for our loved ones and recognize that, in their own way, they are doing their best to help our children thrive.