09/10/2026
‘Before Forever After’
There is a tender, in-between space towards the end of life. Not quite the past, not yet forever after. It is a time when the big things fall away, and the small things become everything. A favourite blanket, a familiar clock, a family photograph in a wonky frame that has been looked at a thousand times.
It is a privilege for Shanoo and I to be involved in curating that comfort. We take the time to learn what truly makes each person feel safe and happy – not what necessarily looks tidy, but what feels like home. If that means the favourite mug each morning (might even have a little chip) or the sheep skin slippers with a little hole in the toe, then that’s what stays. Because at this point, its all about memories, the familiar and comfort.
To be invited into our clients lives at this point is not work to us. It is a profound privilege, and we thank the families for trusting Transition Solutions to hold these precious moments with care.
Title inspiration with gratitude to Helena Dolny, author of “Before Forever After: When Conversations About Living Meet Questions About Dying” (2017)