14/05/2022
*Don't forget to appreciate those that you still have*
The beauty of life is that it has no single formula . Sometimes people can have different views and that doesn't make them enemies or mean one is correct and the other one is wrong .
The reason why I am saying this is that today I want to talk about a very sensitive subject .Some will agree with me and others may not it's all good . Like all those who lost their loved once I really miss all my relatives who have passed on . If my dad had not passed on I know I should be a multi millionaire now , if my uncle had not passed on I know I should have been one of those spoiled kids driving the latest cars😁😁🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️ the list can go on and on but my post is not meant to cause sorrow as you remember your loved once who passed on .
Let me quickly make my point . I lost my dad 27 years and some relatives made a sacrifice for me to go to expensive schools and they gave me a good life just to make sure I am comfortable . It's not a secret that I really miss my Dad but if I talk about how I wish my dad was still alive daily on my what's up status , Facebook, Twitter etc , I think in a way I will be also saying those who took me in,fed me ,clothed me , schooled me and been looking after me for the past 27 years are not a good job at all .
Should I not talk about my late dad? A big NO!! I should talk about him but I must also talk about and appreciate my current family members that I still have .
It's sad that some of us will only appreciate those who have passed on .I think we also need to take time to appreciate the sacrifice and good work our current family or guardians are doing .
In closing I think that instead of just talking and posting status on social media about those who have passed on and hope that if they were still here they were gonna help you to solve challenges ,I think that it's better to achieve more in life so that even when we meet in heaven they will say well done 😁
